Have you ever been in class, and you’ve done the reading, but for some reason you’re still TERRIFIED of being cold-called? Or, maybe you have something on your mind that you’d like to contribute in class or in a group, but you’re afraid of speaking up?
You’re afraid of looking stupid. Of people finding out that you’re not that smart. Of them laughing at you behind your back.
Let’s explore that worst case scenario. Let’s say people think your comment is stupid, ignorant, or offensive. They laugh at you and gossip behind your back. Then what?
Maybe you cry. Maybe you feel ashamed. Maybe you learn something. Maybe you find out who your friends are. Maybe someone else avoids criticism.
Does that sound manageable?
Let’s reverse it. If you’re going to think about the worst case scenario, also consider the best case scenario, because it is EQUALLY POSSIBLE.
Let’s say you make a comment, and it blows your professor’s mind. Everyone in the room feels enlightened by what you said. Let’s say your idea becomes a journal article that changes the way people think about the law for the next decade.
Which scenario do you choose to dwell on?
Are you more likely to become the person you want to become on this law school journey by expecting the worst? Or expecting the best? Or by allowing yourself neutrality?
Consider this:
Trust that your ideas have value.
Share them. Articulate them. Let them take up space.
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